Well I should have drove the jeep a little more before I posted duh
Its defiantly not pulling to one side it was just the wind as I did alot of highway driving over thanksgiving weekend. And the 4.88 & 33" combo is so much better at 70mph than my old setup of 4.10 & 30" it aint even funny, I cant believe I was missing all this avaiable power for 6 years. Also I think the swaying back & forth problem when I hit a bumb hard at fast speeds might be due to the large squishy tires. I checked air pressure on them and they were like 25psi in the back and 23psi in the front, so I think that is the problem instead of a suspension issue, I hope at least. Anyways I did alot of driving on the thing now, and so did my wife and its not that bad I can defiantly live with it, I hardly notice it now that I am used to it. I am just waiting for my springs to settle down a little because it sure is bouncy now, its like driving a stock YJ or a CJ.
Also there is a little driveline hum when I accelerate hard, even though I have the T-case drop kit installed, I think I will install a SYE & new drive shaft around Christmas. Does anyone know if I can leave the T-case drop kit on and still install the SYE & new drive shaft and not have any problems???
I did get a chance to wheel the thing on my land for a few minutes on Friday, even though I dont have any sway bar disconnects yet I was able to clear some scarry shit it felt like I was going to flip over, I cant wait to see what it will do with disconnects. And I was able to climb a steep muddy & snowy hill in 2wd drive thanks to my new true trac differentials, I know my previous setup would have stuggled with that hill in those coniditions in the 4wd. The true trac is pretty cool you can litteraly "feel" it working when you first start spinning out.