my mech did test and oil pressure is (at) 8 when idle and 16 at 3k rpm's, have to dig thru the book to see what the stock pressure is for the 4.0L for him, but my guess oil pump bad. He looked at the head and says he will need to do a test to be 100% but looks ok visually.
take it back to the mechanic who did the rebuild, 10 miles in and you have 8psi at idle and 16 when you should have over 50 it's obviously a rebuild issue.
oh, you can't tell visually if the head is ok without taking it off, neither can you tell if the head gasket is ok.
if what you said before is correct (that the head gasket looks 1/4'' thick) i am going to guess that the engine was not rebuilt unless you saw it being taken apart and put back together, that is not happening in that much driving, it takes some time for the gasket to swell like that.