is the 9'' full floater? (I have no idea how it's built, i'll do a search once i post this). If it is not a full floater design then if you break a shaft you can probably crawl a little to get out of the way but won't be able to drive it back home, won't spit the wheel out like the c-clip so there is an advantage to it. It unlikely to break the 9'' from what i understand but then again i'm not familiar with it so don't really know.
You can have them built as FF's or SF.
wouldnt the 44 be plenty strong for the 4banger? i think we are all establishing that even with ARB locker, the super35 ive been offered is a waste? so between 44 and 8.8, would it be better to go for the 44? as far as the 9", it sounds real big and heavy. Im not sure where to get one either.
Personally, I'd probably consider a Toyota 8". The big advantage of the removable third-member is that gear changes are a lot easier. Pull it out and then you can change gears on a bench. Carry a second their-member and swap back and forth.
The 9" is probably going to be lighter then a 8.8". A 44 is strong but it really depends on how big you go. If you want to do 35's or larger then you'd be better off with the 9. If you're sticking with 33's or less then 44's are going to be fine.
I don't like the Super35 at all. They're expensive and you can build a JY axle for less. I'd consider a builder axle from say Currie or some other shop though. Especially if you can't handle the welding and such. Price would be too far off if you don't go crazy with the options.
If you want to do some welding then I'd consider JK D44's or even the J8 axles. Cheapest would be to find some TJ Rubicon axles. Yeah, they might not be the best but they are bolt-in and still strong then stock.