The 62mm throttle body is a pretty standard upgrade, you can't go much larger. The stock TB gasket is already large enough for the 62mm TB and makes a good template to mark the intake manifold opening for opening it up for the larger TB. I include an extra gasket and longer bolts with my 1" 62mm spacers.
Consider an injector upgrade as well.
I installed new valve springs when I put my cam in, they were required due to the extra lift of the cam. I can probably get you the Mopar part numbers. Good time for a timing chain replacement since you're right there anyway, I believe the double-roller for the 4.0L will fit.