Not many todays 4wd vehicles come with manual lockouts any more. Why? With today's design capabilities and manufacturing to match and the marketing for less effort on the owner, the vehicles are designed for less maintenance and more replacement repairs. If you want the effects of not having the front ds spin, disconnect it from the front axle, tape up the joint caps, and secure it to the frame. I highly doubt that you need 4wd more than (maybe) 2 weekends a month and if that. Rest of the time, you will be in 2wd. It only takes a 5/16 wrench to get the yoke loops loose to pull the joint. If you think you need 4wd in the snow, how are the little fwd imports getting around?
Yah, the front tires will still spin the r&p.
If you really want to have manual hubs, Reider Racing (and their will probably be some followers) offers to the Jeep Wrangler D30 an option of swapping in knuckles to use GM outer hardware. You will need to change wheels as the hub is bigger and the lug configuration is different as well (depending which configuration you go with 5on5.5, 6on5.5, etc. ). But in effect, it is a D30. It still has other design flaws for large tires.
But for the bolt-on crowd, there are options out there for you to spend your money. Custom axles are also available for bolt in configurations. The field spreads from a simple replacement hub to a full swap out front axle.