you can use the stock location, i didn't know what your plan is that's why i asked.
i used a 30 amp relay but i cannot remember what the recommendation was, to ballpark it use one at least the value of the recommended fuse, larger won't hurt.
I used 2 weatherpack connectors as i have an SSI-4 and the split second unit as well. for the O2 signal i used a 2 prong one, in and out from the stock o2 on one side which i can jump in case i want to go back to stock, the other side is only one connected to the LC-1. For the rest of them i used another connector, for power and grounds mainly which went with the other connections (it was a 10 prong one since i needed a lot of things to be jumped). I cut the stock harness right above the clutch master (somewhere in that area) about where it bends down towards the PCM - in my case i planned it so i can unplug all the devices and plug the harness back in just as stock.
in your case you can use 1 connector and since the only thing you'll need to cut is the o2 signal wire going to the PCM - you can have both ends connected there (the one coming from O2 and the one going to the PCM) along with vehicle ground, sensor ground, power, etc - you can then use another connector to jump the wire you cut to go back to stock if you want at some point (not necessary but you never know) - i have that just hanging there on the harness so i can plug it back in if needed.
since the innovate wires are so darn thin i used a large heatshrink tubing to go over the connector and the wire and make it more sturdy (actually i put 2 one on top of the other).