Well more bad news, went and bought external regulator and connector guy at local rebuild shop tested both old alternator and one with pigtail adapter both tested good. Even said pigtail connections were correct. Went to pick-n-pull got right 136a alt out of dodge Dakota went and had it tested to just to eliminate pigtail connector thing. Well made my harness for external regulator found my 12v ignition source and wired it up started jeep checked for voltage and Zip, notta, nothing, still running off battery then jeep starts running like crap, spitting and sputtering, AC coming on and controls turned off, starts idling high then cuts off. So at this point say heck with it all and call stealership and guy says $600 just for PCM, that wasn't happening. Guy told me to check PCM connection as I told him whole story that jeep was running fine until I washed it. So disconnected battery and unplug each one 2 out of 3 rubber seals were ripped and it smelt burnt. Jumped on google found site ordered and suppose to have reman'd PCM flashed and ready to go by COB Friday. $235 total so really hoping that this does the trick.
Man I hope nothing else goes wrong.
Thanks for all the info
Mike