Frankly, I'd like to believe that with two lunchboxed (and were talking Construction Worker "lunchbox," not Sailor Moon "lunchbox" for the Aussies
) your worst case scenario is having two axles with one wheel unweighted on each and the other two spinning on dusty rocks looking for traction. Basically, this means you'd have two wheels spinning in the dust -- say front/left and rear/right or vice versa. I still say that your wheel spin, even like this, is going to be greatly moderated by the fact that you have two tires (say, front/left and rear/right) huntring for traction, not one.
The 4 Banger, powerhouse that it is, (maybe even the "HO 6," too) is just not likely going to have the juice to break something in the aforementioned situation when the unweighted wheels land. Furthermore, with the two said wheels in the dust, your traction "area" is still doubled (and put a different way, your powerful 4's stock 150 or so lb/ft of torque -- multiplied by your respective drive-train -- is working at spinning two wheels instead of one). When your Jeep's unweighted wheels land, front and rear, they are also not likely to be spinning at the same speed as would a rear wheel on a Jeep with an autolocker on the rear-axle only -- The 4's torque doesn't turn in to that of a supercharged Chevy V8 when it has autolockers front and rear (wish it did, though :) )
I think dual lunch box lockers, say Aussies, basically work like "Risk Management" -- sh$ts going to happen, you just want to take steps to minimize the chance. Can you still break an axle with dual lunchies, say a D35? Sure. Are the chances of this reduced, provided all else on your Jeep stays equal ("all else" being tire size, gas pedal usage, gearing, engine size, Driver "Gusto," trail difficulty). I'd say "Yes." (Only downside with dual lunch is ice/snow/rain traction at higher speed in 4WD High. I'm in the Sun Belt, so I don't see much of the slick weather unless I actively hunt around for it by heading to the mountains -- and there I'd probably just stay 2WD unless I got stuck with my set-up. If you are in the Pacific Northwest, Colorado, New England, Canada you probably don't want to mess with an autolocker in your front end -- get a True Trac or an ARB/OX. And, personally, I would, admittedly, rather have ARBS/OX/Detroits (not the EZs) -- frankly, with the right axles, etc. these do an even better job of "Risk Management." But, I live in a mostly dry area, don't have a ton of disposable income, and I speculate that the strength of the Aussies, their bang-for-the-buck, and their anti-axle-breakage potential when running them front and rear, D30/D35C, are all
High -- so, that's what I am sticking with.