Okay, I closed the tab that I typed a nice big reply/update before posting, so heres a quickie.
I got a check for $104.30 from my insurance. They're gonna try to get my $500.00 deductible from the woman who pulled out in front of me, but I'm not holding my breath.
On a whim I was looking for new bumpers on Quadratec's site and in their catalog, and found one I liked.
I then on a hunch, found this one on eBay;
They're the same! Only the eBay one is $50.00 less. I bought it.
So Jesse James, thanks for the heads up on the tube bumper you have. I appreciate the offer, but this one is exactly what I was looking for. You're right too about me being up in Green Bay.
Also iismet, depending on what the body shop says, I might shoot a PM your way about that fender. If you can sell it before then, by all means do. I might be a month so I don't want to cost you a sale.
Thanks to all for being cool. This is the best Jeep site on the net!