So, did your friend just watch someone or did he learn from reading it on the Internet? If you have a FSM or even a Chiltons or Hayes, it would have shown you how the shims are setup. A manual of some sort is a must. You will have gear patterns and a shim chart. Honestly, you should be reusing the stock shims to start off with. Also, you should have removed the old bearings to use as setup bearings (hone the bearings out a little with a drum sander or grinder.)
I hope he's not charging you...