I agree...teach her the stick shift. A good life lesson indeed. Once she figures it out, she'll never think about it after a while and she'll always be able to do it. Then and only then will she be able to drive, text, play with the radio, do her make-up, talk on the phone, eat a sandwich, you get my point....shifting will not be that much more of a hassle, seeing that she's probably already a master a multi-tasking.