well its not throwing any codes. and the motor only has 81000 on it do you really think the cat would go bad that quick?
yeah, they usually last 200,000 miles
EDIT: mine has less than that and i replaced it twice, the first time it failed emissions, the second time it broke inside and blocked the exhaust so bad that i could not drive faster than 20 (no exaggeration). The fuel filter should be replaced for sure if you didn't yet, the cat should also be replaced anyway at that many miles so might as well do it, can't tell you for sure that's the problem but is pretty close to what you describe as far as behavior to either lack of fuel or clogged cat