TJ's use 4.0L mounts for both engines.
I've had a few different MM's and if it's a daily driver I recommend the spacers. For daily driving the vibrations really get to you after a while. Also, I suspect this may have been the case of the demise of my exhaust.
The other situation I notice a big difference is when launching from a stop. I can feel how soft the OEM mounts are as the engine torque's to one side. Launches aren't nearly as positive.